Ahmedabad, Gujarat, India
June 3, 2018
Can you change yourself?
Well, most of the people say, “People can’t change.”
It is said, “Where there is a will there is a way.” You can do anything if you are willing to do and have the correct path to achieve it, whether it is a matter of exaltation of your personality and life.
Each person has all the resources within himself or herself, that are necessary to change a life. In the previous article (Indian Newslink Website, April 26, 2018), you got to know about the Handwriting Analysis (Graphology), that identifies personality traits, human character, inherent qualities and skills through handwriting.
Thanks to the incredible science of handwriting analysis (Graphology) and Graphotherapy, you have been given an easy and effective tool to choose your own destiny, shaping own personalities and rising up the corporate ladder and begin to live your life with true potential. Let’s see how it works!
Brain, the Guide
Scientifically, when you write on paper using a pen, your brain guides your hands. It directs your muscles to move in a certain way. Your mode of writing is influenced by your subconscious minds.
Handwriting Analysis, a modern form of psychology that identifies personality through handwriting. The interesting part is that the reverse also holds true and that is you can influence your minds through handwriting. Graphotherapy is the process of changing your handwriting style to positively affect your personality, attitude and general outlook on life.
By analysing handwriting, an expert graphologist can examine this two-way connection between your brain and your muscle and rewrite the connection to alter certain aspects of your personality.
Negative traits and strokes
Graphotherapy works on the negative traits and strokes of person’s existing handwriting which enhances the personality.
Graphotherapists suggest that some writing exercise overcome negative traits and to add positive traits depend on your handwriting and depend upon which profession and position you are. The writing exercise does not involve a lot of drastic changes in existing handwriting.
But it is just a few modifications in letters like traits, stroke, slants, shapes, sizes, the pressure of handwriting. Even stacking of traits also plays important role in Graphotherapy.
Every letter has several different definitions depending on how you write.
For Example, if you change the way you cross the ‘t,’ it then has a corresponding effect on your self-worth and your general self-esteem.
There are few more alphabets like the change in the loop of ‘y’ across the baseline to get rid of your fear of success, closing the loop in your ‘d’ for less sensitivity to criticism and closing the gap in the bottom of your ‘t’ or ‘d’ for less stubbornness.
Graphotherapy never changes person’s handwriting for purpose of aesthetical look.
In fact, aesthetically beautiful handwriting does not corelate to the person having a good or an impressive personality and vice-versa.
In terms of Graphology, modern beautiful and stylish calligraphic script writing has some wrong strokes and traits, which unintentionally create some negative impact on the person.
Think! What you want the better appearance of handwriting or the better life?
Practice makes perfect
To be physically fit and strengthen, your body needs regular physical exercise. Similar way, to develop new positive traits and alleviate the negative traits, your brain needs regular nonmedical exercise via Graphotherapy.
The changes in traits and strokes suggested by Graphotherapists are not something that happens overnight, but it takes several days of regular practice.
Repetition is the key to building long-lasting habits, expanding brain elasticity, and forming new neuro-pathways. The regular practice is reiterating the changes that you want to bring in yourself by creating new neuro-pathways in your mind as like create a new walking path on land by several footprints.
Graphotherapy is effective only when you show tireless commitment to bring about changes in yourself. Just pick up a pen and a few sheets of paper and practice the recommended exercises for about 15 minutes every day.
A Graphotherapy exercise is done for 30 days at a stretch, without fail.
If it is discontinued even on the 28th day, you will have to restart.
The task is not arduous. You won’t be learning to write all over again. It is easy, it is convenient, it is helpful. It is something you can do without spending loads of money. Through such regular and conscious practice, your brain accepts the change that you aspire for, and you notice that you have been successful in your efforts.
Similar to Handwriting analysis and Graphotherapy, few other elements such as Signature analysis, Signature makeover approved and certified by Handwriting University, California.
Rajesh Kothari is a renowned handwriting analyst with Certification in Handwriting Analysis from the California-based Handwriting University International. A handwriting expert, Rajesh has served as a consultant and mentor to students, professionals and entrepreneurs throughout the world. He has helped many people in shaping their personalities and rise in their corporate careers with the help of comprehensive graphology services. He can be contacted on +91-9825074137; Email: rajeshkothari59; rkothari; Skype: rajeshkothari59; Facebook: handwriting skill; Website: www.handwritingskill.com
- Rajesh Kothari (Picture from his website)
- Graphotherapy image supplied by author